tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-47432914830218212662024-03-13T15:25:40.928-04:00This Jane Says...Honestly, I'm not sure how to describe this blog other than a new type of adventure I am taking to see how writing goes and have a little fun too!This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-76798941198436590512013-06-03T22:06:00.000-04:002013-06-03T22:06:25.716-04:00Become a Part of Something Bigger Than You<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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5 years ago, in an effort to get better connected at my church, I began volunteering with youth groups (Thank you Sloan and
Lauren!). While it has been a time
commitment, there are few things I have done that have been more rewarding. Parents know what I am talking about – one
friend always tells me “parenting is the hardest and most rewarding thing I’ve
ever done" and I think working with fantastic kiddos falls in that purview.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The greatest opportunity I’ve gotten with them was the
pilgrimage to Belize in 2011. It was time away
from life’s daily distractions and an amazing way in which to get to know
such fantastic teenagers in a different setting. I learned a ton from them and my hope is we
all learned from each other. A fellow
group leader reminded them of the following at their recent senior dinner/ college
send-off and I believe is helpful advice for us all:<b>
If God is in it, then you’ll have no limit… to what you can do or where you can go!
</b>(Thanks Gene!) <b> </b>Below is my letter to
them at end of our time together this spring. Gene suggested it might make a great blog so I’m sharing (and appreciate he has read my blogs ;-)! There just are not words to empahasize what an investment - worth every second - these kiddos are worth. I am so blessed to have been a part of their lives thus far and can't wait to see how their lives unfold! Such a gift God has given me!! </div>
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Dear Life Group Seniors,<o:p></o:p></div>
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It’s hard to believe we met when you were in 8<sup>th</sup>
grade – just becoming teenagers. And now
you are becoming adults; about to head out into the world and see what you can
learn on your own. Here are a few things
we learned on our pilgrimage in Belize that I hope continue to serve and guide
you as they do me.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Namaste was the theme from our journey so that we remember <b>“the divine in me salutes the divine in
you”</b>. Seeing a person for who they
really are inside; honoring the light God places in people’s hearts that makes
them unique; and acknowledging it within <u>you</u>. The next few years will be a time for you to
explore and challenge your beliefs – what you really think on your own. Let it grow and change but always be grounded
in the love God and your home & church families have for you.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Remember the white feather Ordinary found in the Land of
Normal that made him believe the Dream Giver had visited him. God has a dream for you and has placed it in
your heart – it is special and unique to you.
Dare to dream and live your life as God has dreamed for you. Be bold and try things that scare you. Only the person that never tries truly fails.
I like how Winston Churchill says it: <b>“Success
is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”</b><o:p></o:p></div>
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Community – we all talked about how blessed we were to have
such a special group that gives us a safe community to know and experience
God’s love for us through so many others.
A “thin place between heaven and earth” is where you feel God’s
presence; I learned that it is not geographically based but rather it is where
you feel that sense of community.
Matthew 18:20 <b>“For where two or
three gather in my name, there am I with them.”<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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On the last day, JPA challenged us to think about our
relationship with God as a living God.
God is alive, working and growing in us every day. It is a much more rewarding and fulfilling
relationship when you give it life. It
can guide you and give you purpose. At
your age (and to this day), this was one of my favorite verses that helped
direct me on how to live God’s plan.
Philippians 2:14-16a <b>“In
everything you do, stay away from complaining and arguing so that no one can
speak a word of blame against you. You are to live clean, innocent lives as
children of God in a dark world full of people who are crooked and stubborn.
Shine out among them like beacon lights, holding out to them the Word of Life.”</b> Just by being your best you, true to
yourself, and the amazing, bright shining, fantastically awesome people I have
gotten to know over the last 5 years, you will <u>shine</u>!<o:p></o:p></div>
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Thank you for being part of the foundation for me in
building my community with Christ Church – I couldn’t have done it without you
and it certainly wouldn’t have been as much fun to establish! You always have me in your corner and I look
forward to seeing how your life continues to unfold.<o:p></o:p></div>
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With much love and affection – Namaste!<o:p></o:p></div>
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Jane<o:p></o:p></div>
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-RyJe51Cdxlw/UYMC1uXI-II/AAAAAAAAAJ4/sg_5vq2XGSU/s1600/Photo+on+5-2-13+at+8.11+PM+%233.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-RyJe51Cdxlw/UYMC1uXI-II/AAAAAAAAAJ4/sg_5vq2XGSU/s320/Photo+on+5-2-13+at+8.11+PM+%233.jpg" width="320" /></a>Most people are familiar with The Law of Attraction these
days. Following <u>The Secret</u>’s tremendous
success, it became a fairly well known philosophy. Have you ever tried it? Write, draw, paint, sing, pray (yes, I
believe that is very much applicable to the Law of Attraction) for something you deeply
desire? It doesn’t have to be deep with
all the emotional investment in the world.
It can be fun and light-hearted – an opportunity to fantasize and be
silly. Can’t we all use a little silly
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Most know, I write this blog to stay true to myself, keep a
light heart engaged and be funny when I can (yes Brendan, girls can be
funny)… So at the beginning of last
summer, I wrote a blog about Summer Lovin’. There were seeds to that
desire: who doesn't want to feel loved? Being raised a Gamecock, hope
springs eternal because hope had to spring as the mighty cockbirds never won most of
my life ;-)! So I decided I would write
the “Aren't Summer Loves Grand” blog/wish for myself, for my nieces since they are getting to that age where
boys are very interesting (sorry Chris), for fellow singles and for marrieds that could use a
little romance.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<a href="webkit-fake-url://7971ED99-BF7D-43ED-95DE-134EF9B87441/application.pdf" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="webkit-fake-url://7971ED99-BF7D-43ED-95DE-134EF9B87441/application.pdf" /></a>Shortly after, I had one of the most amazing good night
kisses. I keep hearing Lady Antebellum –
“just a kiss on your lips in the moonlight” – among some other fun songs that
relive that night. But the point of the
story is not about where that went (or didn’t go because, sadly nothing evolved);
<b>this blog is </b><b>about believing</b>. Being
present for something wonderful and letting it happen. Reaffirming that there are special people out
there that see you & make you feel special too. And knowing that any day, life can bring an
amazing gift – letting you know greatness awaits you as long as you LIVE. So maybe something did evolve; a reaffirmation what can be if we let go and let God.</div>
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So #ThisJane Says, write (or your chosen vehicle of
expression) what you want to happen. Let
yourself dream and believe. It is out
there and will present itself when you least expect it because you just know it just will. Oh and here's to 2013 Summer Loves...! ;-)</div>
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I love the bumper sticker that says, I try to be the person
my dog thinks I am. While I fully
identify with that sentiment, I might subscribe more to trying to be the person
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<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-gBessyJ9Y-Y/UVLYO2VOj_I/AAAAAAAAAIw/NDvDy1KbwRg/s1600/IMG_1709.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-gBessyJ9Y-Y/UVLYO2VOj_I/AAAAAAAAAIw/NDvDy1KbwRg/s200/IMG_1709.jpg" width="149" /></a>What is inspiring about Mia? Let's be honest, she has had really rough 4 months! Bad dog bite over Christmas, fractured wrist mid February, and opossum attack mid March that included infected bite wounds requiring 2 antibiotics...! She spent about a month getting 7 pills twice a day - not to mention, no fetch, or play time for at least 6 weeks! And this is one active pup. But she has handled it like a champ - stayed in great spirits and taking things such as the awkward splint, in stride. The trooper is still "smiling".<br />
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When Mia is bored with my head in the computer or a book, she finds her own entertainment – which truly cracks me up. Mia gets her bone and tosses it in the air, jumps away from it, then on to it, away again, then pauses and studies it – as if it may make some sudden movement. The hunter in her never sleeps. Then she takes to tossing it around again – eventually letting it slide under a sofa or the TV cabinet. This, of course, requires my involvement in this game… Accidents happen, I suppose. But how can I not admire someone making their own fun?<br />
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<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-aVsRmqeiGLs/T-E_UwCWEkI/AAAAAAAAAFs/LMVp6ewYccA/s1600/IMG_0886.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-aVsRmqeiGLs/T-E_UwCWEkI/AAAAAAAAAFs/LMVp6ewYccA/s200/IMG_0886.jpg" width="180" /></a>On days I work from home and leave the back door open - she'll wander
out and just sit in the sun. One ear is focused on my sneak escape that I
never do but she always expects – but she (mostly) relaxes and enjoys a
beautiful day. I love that! It always reminds me that I should "stop
and smell the roses" and enjoy the precious present. If a dog
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Where do I see Mia most happy? Without a doubt, it is
playing fetch. Good gracious that dog
would fetch until her body literally could not move after the ball anymore.
Our record was over 2 1/2 hours on the Hughes’s back porch with
several beers and rotating human throwers. We all tuckered out at that
point - not Mia. #ThisJane says, when you find something you love, never
give up on it.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Do I want to be the person my dog thinks I am, you bet! But #ThisJane Says I’ll also try to be a
little like the crazy pup too: Keep on smiling, make my own fun, be present and never quit.</div>
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<b><span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: large;">Burn Baby, Burn<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Biloxi Blues by Neil Simon– that is the movie that made me
more seriously consider my written words. Matthew Broderick’s character, Eugene, always journaled his own observations of life. At one point, he wrote about his best friend,
Epstein and not being sure of his best friend’s sexuality. As this movie was set in the 1940s and within
the military, this was an especially big deal.
Not so much to Matthew’s character, or people I know today; but due to
the implications for his friend, Eugene (Broderick) wanted to rip out those
pages of his journal. His friend Epstein
– the subject of speculation - told him not to destroy his writing and to never
to compromise himself; “Once you start compromising your thoughts, you're a
candidate for mediocrity.”<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">That has resonated with me for 25+ years. I have been journaling since I can remember
and am pretty sure I have never thrown away thoughts. And while I fully agree with Epstein’s
character and am not okay with mediocrity, I do believe some thoughts and
feelings are intended for moments in time.
Just like friendships come for “reason, season, lifetime” categories;
emotions do as well. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Whether with family feuds, changing friendships, hurt
feelings and – of course – broken hearts; no matter the person or relationship,
life evolves to present different paths, lessons and challenges. All we can do is make the best choice for our
lives at that time and embrace the blessings each experience provides. Darn it
– don’t we often learn the most from the most painful of situations…?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So #ThisJane Says, it’s okay to burn certain pages from your
proverbial journal (or real journal in my case :-); to let go of a way you know
you feel or felt at a certain time because you no longer can, do or should feel
that way. Heck, write the journal
entries you NEED to burn for the cathartic experience. Where mediocrity can be met when compromising your beliefs, it can also be lived by not allowing yourself
to grow beyond you at one point in time.
Burn baby burn…</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="color: blue; font-size: x-large;">S</span>ometimes, okay oftentimes, I don’t have the original words;
but those words that come before us are <i>just right</i> for our lives in any given
moment. Yes, I am still writing about
music (aren’t I always?); but we see this in novels, poems and movies that
never go out of style ("Dear George: Remember no man is a failure who has
friends.” You got that right, Clarence! <i><u>It’s a
Wonderful Life</u></i>)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Here we are in January – a New Year, a new launch, (a
birthday :-) - a time where people feel emboldened and compelled to make
changes, to live the life they have always wanted, to <u>dare to dream</u>. Most people I know set intentions or resolutions for the New Year; or make lists of all the things they want to do – practical or
not - just to try to accomplish more,
live fuller, bigger, better. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Heck - in essence, I started blogging because I have always wanted to write but was so afraid to share (it was my 2012 Leap of Faith/Lenten
commitment). And I have loved what I have gained from this risk - I only wish I had more time to write. So what’s your 2013 dream? What are you going to dare to do? I’m not saying I buy into resolutions… we
all let those slide. But being brave and taking a risk, I am buying into that since every day is
a new chance to take your life out for a spin. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This past summer, I took some other chances/stances that I would
not have taken a year ago (writing must have been my gateway ;-). My girlfriends
decided I was charting out a <b>Year of Bold</b>. In all honesty, it wasn’t so much intentional
as my just getting more brave and living more presently; but it apparently
inspired. And not just my gal pals but inspired
me because of their support and the “why not live” perspectives. I like bold Jane-O! Even though I have not escaped unscathed...,
I have been present and lived and I</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> cherish that immensely.</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">My college roommate, Ann used to say “Jane,
its okay to make mistakes - as long as they are your mistakes.”</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> That was always a hard one for me - I don't like making mistakes. But she was so right; and what I regret most thus far are the things I didn't try because I was afraid. I'm pretty confident fear (often analysis paralysis in my case) is the bigger regret than simply screwing up. <i>Everybody Makes Mistakes</i> (Hannah Montana sang about it, Miley Cyrus lives it ;-)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When thinking about living the <b>Year of Bold</b>
and in the precious present, these lyrics by Anne Heaton are especially inspiring;
but mostly, I just LOVE the beauty of this song!</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Oh forget what you know<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">And draw me with crayons<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Spin around the room <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">With paint on your hands<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">See who gets covered<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">And when you fall down<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Cause you’re going to crash anyway<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Even if you’re stuck not moving<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You can be lulled by insults<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Or sharpened by love<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You may as well jump<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You might as well jump<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> for something<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">#ThisJane Says, live your own <b>Year of Bold</b> and just jump… I know it will pay off and you will be
glad – I will too!</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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<!--EndFragment-->This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-81190076302570038232012-09-25T23:00:00.001-04:002012-09-25T23:00:43.839-04:00<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Find the Music in
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I love music! Musicals, live bands, pop, radio, choirs, and so on...
Mostly, because there is always a lyric that perfectly captures how one
feels – whatever that feeling. I may be
alone in this dorky belief (I doubt it) but it is one of my favorite
quirks. Admit it - you've been caught singing at the stop light! Or you certainly remember that first heart break and calling WKZQ or WYAV (MB stations) to request the latest crushing love song that mirrors your broken heart... :-) I just find it delicious how lyrics join me on life's journey:<o:p></o:p></div>
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Just a kiss on your lips in the moonlight (…<i>SIGH</i>….)<o:p></o:p></div>
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So you had a bad day...
(<i>Sometimes that’s true, nice to know others do too</i>)<o:p></o:p></div>
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The beating of my heart is a drum and its lost and it's
looking for a rhythm like you (<i>one of my all time favorite poetic expressions – even if
it is Air Supply</i>)<o:p></o:p></div>
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And the cat’s in the cradle and the silver spoon (<i>for all parents & teens</i>)<o:p></o:p></div>
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You’ve just gotta ignite the light and let it shine, just
own the night like the <span style="color: blue;">4<sup>th</sup></span> of <span style="color: #cc0000;">July</span> (<i>favorite holiday in Myrtle
Beach </i>;-)<o:p></o:p></div>
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The song remembers when (<i>no truer words spoken</i>)<o:p></o:p></div>
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He sang from his heart and he sang from his soul, he didn't know how well he sang, it just made him whole (<i>wonder if anyone else knows this one...?</i>)<br />
I might even be a rock star! (<i>I miss you, Hannah Montana</i>)<o:p></o:p></div>
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As someone told me lately, everyone deserves a chance to <u>FLY</u>
(<i>Sometimes we should all be a little bit <b>WICKED</b></i>)<o:p></o:p></div>
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I could be up in Ohio or back home Caroline, no matter what state I'm in, I’m in a southern state of mind
(<i>803 loves you, Darius!</i>)<o:p></o:p></div>
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I just haven’t met you yet! (<i>Sing it Michael Bublé!</i>)</div>
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<i style="text-align: center;">~I could do this for days…!~</i></div>
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To me, this is so simple. I find it tough to understand
non-musical folks when every single thought and emotion can be expressed for
you. Enriched, vetted, validated,
hopeful, hopeless, made bigger, or smaller – what a gift music is to us all. Maybe that’s cheating in a way – not finding
your own words – but I think the words music provides, leads us to better
expression of feelings and better connections with people in the world. <br />
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And even better than articulating how you feel, a song can change your day! I have scratchy days like everyone else - and am so grateful I can dig into my iTunes library to select something to lift me up; whether something spiritual (that always works - at least God love me if the rest of the world doesn't that day ;-) or a contemporary hit such as Shake It Off by Florence + the Machine - that's a great directive there. It IS hard to dance with the devil on your back, so shake him off.<o:p></o:p><br />
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Music is all around, waiting to embrace your day. If you stop and listen, you can hear beyond lyrics in the world: at stop lights, on summer breezes or rolling waves, in traffic jams, on rainy days, with relationships, kiddos, pets, and the ever quest for love...! Maybe make your own tune, just for you.<br />
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No matter where we are or what we experience, there
is a song for it. #ThisJane Says, find
the music in you – whether for inspiration, peace, validation, et cetera – let it
fill you up, like a <b><span style="color: #cc0000;">Red Solo Cup</span></b>. <span style="color: #cc0000;"><b>;-)</b></span></div>
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This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-52793751631595306332012-07-26T23:11:00.001-04:002012-07-26T23:11:51.950-04:00<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Get to Know Your
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This may sound bizarre, but I love knowing my parent’s (or
perhaps one of) song! Admittedly, I have
old school tendencies and love music from my parent’s era – it’s the music I
grew up hearing and singing along. There
is magic to it. Granted I am so blessed
to have folks still together and hope this diatribe isn’t hurtful to friends,
but I can honestly say I know love can last.
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My parents and I are close – closer than normal at times I
imagine. But I cherish our
friendship. While I am fully aware that
I don’t know all the details (don’t want to) of their 45+ years together, I
know they are still there and love each other very much. An amazing fete in the world as we know
it! Inspiring and assuring to me but an
attainable thing, set in reality. I have
seen that marriage is hard, that feelings get hurt, that marriage is work –
among a lot of other things. But even
when they are frustrated and find each other trying (or flat out difficult), I also see
them recognize their friendship, commitment and life that they have built
together.<o:p></o:p></div>
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One time many years ago, I asked what they thought made
marriage work. Of course, they answered
love, but also luck in that they have grown together (which I think is a result
of work, forgiveness, respect and acceptance).
But finished their list with mostly being each other’s best friend. Mom recently said to me, it is so nice to have
a teammate, that one person that is always on your side. <b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red;">AMEN!
</span></b>That is my fervent prayer – for them, for my family and friends, and of
course, for me!! <span style="font-family: Wingdings;">J</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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Surely it is work to get where they are now and not always
smooth sailing, but what a lovely place they are today. I have such admiration and respect of what I
perceive to be a result of stepping back and saying, okay – ultimately we love
each other, are best friends, and are in this life journey together so let’s
focus on the good. <o:p></o:p></div>
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And I’ll always cherish that day I played my new “old” music
playlist for them. The awe and
excitement that I had “their song” on my "new" playlist. And of course, the singing and dancing
that followed (we are Singletons after all!) - but also seeing the old feelings new.
#ThisJane Says find out your parent’s song, or find one for you and your
love and play it from time to time.
Remember to make old feelings new!
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“I know, I’ll never love this way again, so I keep holding
on, before the good is gone. I know I’ll
never love this way again, hold on, hold on, hold on.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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</div>This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-43784587772061722942012-06-25T21:53:00.003-04:002012-06-25T21:53:57.071-04:00<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Aren't Summer Loves Grand</span></b><br />
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Come on – you remember summer camp… Cute boy, bonfire, movie night, holding hands
walking back to your cabin… There is
nothing like a little summer romance. As
summertime takes over 2012, my fervent hope is that sentiment stays true - no
matter what age! <o:p></o:p></div>
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-mmskpVrydGQ/T-FI5jbAvKI/AAAAAAAAAGQ/21QAFODxaoc/s1600/12.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="85" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-mmskpVrydGQ/T-FI5jbAvKI/AAAAAAAAAGQ/21QAFODxaoc/s400/12.jpg" width="400" /></a>In high school at camp, there was “the waiting game”. We all had crushes on fellow camp counselors
(or staff members), needless to say.
Counselor canteen started 30 minutes after lights out and was simply
hanging out at “The Place”. The
friendship, fellowship and flirting was alive and well at the end of each day. The last 2 people awake, that outlasted
everyone else, "won" the waiting game and got to steal goodnight kisses. Oh the silly grin on my face as I recall the innocence of youth and share that
vivid memory <span style="font-family: Wingdings;">J</span>. <br />
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These days my nieces are camp goers and I know they have a wonderful time
each summer. They have found the love of
a place that few people know and we now share.
But beyond that shared love of a special thin place between heaven and earth, my ardent hope is that they each have summer loves (perhaps new, year after
year) that excite them, cherish them and adore them! Until one day, a guy comes along and “gets
it”. That’s what we are all want for our
loved ones, right?</div>
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-qIQ39-1xNfQ/T-FHbD5LsfI/AAAAAAAAAGE/DsaOISV3VWM/s1600/tr_chair.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-qIQ39-1xNfQ/T-FHbD5LsfI/AAAAAAAAAGE/DsaOISV3VWM/s1600/tr_chair.jpg" /></a>But oh, the fun of flirting… of visiting a special place… of
the anticipation of the person you want to know better in the long days and
cool, sticky nights of summertime. While
camp was many, many years ago, it is still nice to think about interests that come around and make you feel fun & alive. As adults, we find new “camps” – places of
common interests and passions in our lives.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">#ThisJane Says find your summer romance – whether
reawakening flirting feelings of you college summer love and now wife, or still
on the search for God’s plan... Maybe at Pops in the Park, a day on the lake, a night out with friends, or a neighborhood cookout – make
summer love grand!
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: inherit;">"Summer lovin’ had me a blast, summer lovin’ happened so
fast." (anyone else notice a constant soundtrack in my life? Always a tune to accompany the moment/thought/sentiment/feeling :-)</span></span></div>
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</span></div>This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-75861590140104836812012-06-19T19:21:00.001-04:002012-06-19T19:21:51.659-04:00<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Look for How God
Works in Your Life</span></b><br />
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nPiAK3e2Cfc/T-EGYVEWFAI/AAAAAAAAAE8/r6wG6ntPMz4/s1600/IMG_0019.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-nPiAK3e2Cfc/T-EGYVEWFAI/AAAAAAAAAE8/r6wG6ntPMz4/s200/IMG_0019.JPG" width="135" /></a>Last night I prayed for help with some specific things –
forgiveness with a friend I recently let down, help forgiving a couple of
friends that hurt my feelings, help to see my role (if so) in it, and the right
words to coach someone at work. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Along with being mortified, I feel awful about missing my
friend’s daughter’s christening, especially for no good reason. I just lost track of my day. My hurt feelings by some friends has burdened
me and is heavy on my heart. Of course, they may not even know as I
haven’t found the words to talk with one and the other hasn’t returned my
calls. But anger, hurt, sadness - those
feelings weigh me down completely. And
the kid at work, her lack of maturity infuriates me as she addresses me in
a condescending way all the time. I just want to help her be successful as that is my job – to develop recent college
grads to be great in their careers at the bank.
So I specifically prayed for forgiveness, help forgiving and the right
words so the kid at work can hear me and grow.<o:p></o:p></div>
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This morning, I woke up to the following devotion from <u>Bread for the Journey</u>:<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Right Living and Right Speaking<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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To be a witness for God is to be a
living sign of God’s presence in the world.
What we live is more important than what we say, because the right way
of living always leads to the right way of speaking. When we forgive our neighbors from our hearts,
our hearts will speak forgiving words.
When we are grateful, we will speak grateful words, and when we are hopeful and joyful, we will speak hopeful and
joyful words.<o:p></o:p></div>
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When our words come too soon and we
are not yet living what we are saying, we easily give double messages. Giving double messages – one with our words
and another with our actions – makes us hypocrites. May our lives give us the right words, and
may our words lead us to the right lives.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So when people ask me if God answer prayers and talks to me – I unequivocally answer yes.
It took years to learn my role in our relationship - looking for how God works
in my life is required to see those answers and hear His words. Of course, I need reminders of that grace regularly. But I am truly thankful for the unconditional
love God gives and help through, well, anything I am facing. It means never being alone or without someone who is there for me. That is pretty awesome indeed. “Seek and ye shall find” is right – Alleluia. (I love that song :-)</div>
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#ThisJane says listen because God can talk to you from
anywhere, through anyone and in any way.
He wants to answer prayers and comfort and love all of us - just because He made us. We just have
to be open, look for it and receive it. Can I get an amen...? :-)<o:p></o:p></div>This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-26424832977468555792012-06-03T15:33:00.001-04:002012-06-03T15:33:11.505-04:00<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 24px; font-weight: bold;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">Dress Up to impress a
3-year old</span></b></span><br />
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Emma and I are best friends.
Her mom was the first person to voice that in referencing Emma and I to
one of her fellow moms. That sentiment still
warms my heart. Yes, I am 38 years old
and understand saying “best friends” may sound silly or trite. But my precious 3-year old bestie, Emma, and
I are two peas in a pod that adore each other and that is a rare, special
thing. I would even argue that at 38, I
know how valuable a connection that is in today’s transient, disconnected
world.<o:p></o:p></div>
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So when her birthday is approaching, my question to her mom
is how can I make it special? And I love that her mom already knew! “It’s a princess party- want to come as
Cinderella?” No doubt I do!!! Such fun for me! I love any excuse to dress up but
Cinderella? Game on! <o:p></o:p></div>
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Day arrives and I thought I was prepared. Costume, check. Hair band, check. Long gloves, check. Choker necklace, check. Not glass, but special shoes that match the
magical blue dress, check. I even practice the
song – just in case. “A dream IS a wish
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But the kiddos and the birthday girl herself, aren’t quite sure what to
think. "Is Cinderella really here" expressions and hesitations, while sad for the kiddos, COMPLETELY make my
day…! I’m passing for Cinderella…! Sweet!
After awhile, they get comfortable with the princess in their midst (and
yes, I fully realize the jabs I am opening myself up to with that comment), and
we take pictures, swing, eat cake together and so forth.
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Two things made this Cinderella’s (if only for a day) day: 1 – being a part of
a family that is so very special to me and truly takes care of me as their own
– especially making precious Emma’s birthday an unexpected treat. And 2 – After all the kiddos had a go at the
tiara piñata, I was on deck to finish the deal. Quietly whispering under my breath, <b>“I’ve been dating since I was 16, where
is he???”</b>, I have my turn and bust that crown wide open for candy delights for all! Win – win!<o:p></o:p></div>
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#ThisJane Says go all in for the kids in your life and do it
with all the love in your heart!<o:p></o:p></div>
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<i>Last quote must be credited to Charlotte on an episode of Sex and the City.</i></div>This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-46829260091188019712012-05-24T21:58:00.000-04:002012-05-24T21:58:12.028-04:00<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Go to your Reunion</span></span></b><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">20 years… that’s right.
My 20-year high school reunion was at the end of April. I am NOT old enough to have graduated from
high school 20 years ago – that’s longer than I was old at that time. Just
sayin’ not possible. And yet…<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">It came around and while I have missed all reunions except the 5-year
(St. Mary’s celebrates every 5 years), I was determined to go. Boarding school may be a little different
than local high schools – can’t really say I know for sure – but non-boarding
school seems easier to attend as it tends to be your home town. Nonetheless, I was in! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">High School, 20 years later, is going to have some revisionist
history happening. But my two SMC
besties, Elizabeth the Beautiful and TC 1 Time Now, were on my list. Elizabeth and I are FB friends so that was
easier – she was in immediately. Made my
day! Took some time but together we
tracked down Tiffany and although 7 months pregnant and unable to join us for
our PJ party, she wanted to be there and truly was in spirit.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Such a surprise and blessing! Two gals, who were among my dearest friends
at 17-18 years old, were back in my life after 15+ years of drifted apart. And we picked right back up from where we
left off. Although I can’t truly
articulate how very cool that is to experience, I wish it for everyone. It is probably hard pressed for us to have
grown along more different paths (banker, lawyer, social worker) – not earth shattering, just different - but there have been limited
weekends over the past few years (outside of family), where I have felt so
loved for me… quite the gift to treasure.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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satisfaction from the reconnect, was getting to know former acquaintances and
classmates. There were the girls from
the college (we felt so cool to hang with them!) but also our peers that we
knew well, knew differently, or didn’t know much at all. Life has been the great equalizer and does
not care who was or was not cool in high school. We have had our own challenging journeys and
found ourselves humbled and inspired to be there for each other today.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">I’ll wrap this entry with a special thanks to my mom. The night before graduation (May 1992),
Elizabeth and I were at the reception with our parents, then heading out to
meet two of our BFs from home - both Stephanies coincidentally! We were telling my mom how lucky we were to be
best friends “forever” so early in our lives.
Mama said something to the effect of – “just know that it is really hard
to maintain high school friends later in life… you will really have to work at
it.” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">Of course, I was fiercely offended and insistent on the 2<sup>nd</sup>
“F” of “BFF”! But how right she was, and then we both were. Never in my wildest
dreams did I imagine and value how friendships grow and change, ebb and flow –
and can mirror the best elements of a life journey. I am so thankful for those friendships - then
and now – and so many more I have been blessed with throughout my life! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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needing, mirroring and supporting life’s progression and evolution - what a
gift from God! (And that is so many gals
beyond the SMC days – too many to mention!) But for now, I can’t wait for our 25<sup>th</sup> reunion!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">So I wanted to share that #ThisJane Says, go to your
reunions - reconnect. Give an old friendship
the opportunity to be new or even better, be OLD and just “there” again. You may be surprised by how intimidating it
feels but how easy it turns out to be... <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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life-long gift!</span><o:p></o:p></div>This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-57186598456486471872012-04-23T22:27:00.003-04:002012-04-23T22:27:49.738-04:00<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Find Your Laughing
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My parents used to call their dog, Buck, their “laughing place” (a la Uncle Remus). I admit, there was a time when that made me a bit jealous of my 4-legged brother because I had that moniker when I was a kid. But having my own pup now that is busting at the seams with personality and funny quirks – I totally get it.<br />
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My dog, Mia Hammbone, makes me laugh. I can’t believe how much personality a dog
can have but Mia exudes it. Every time I
walk through the door – whether 2 minutes later because I forgot something or several
hours later after being out and about – Mia is waiting by the door. The greeting is quick: a brief sniffing and
licking and half jumping (since jumps aren’t allowed), then off she runs to her
toy basket because it is time to play! Usually returning with an AKC rabbit, duck or quail (or other toy) in mouth, she charges back
towards me, pauses half way into downward facing dog and growls – a low
rumbling GRRR – that is her “Let’s Play” growl.
I snicker now just describing it!<o:p></o:p></div>
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Then there are mornings. While most everyone does not believe me, she does <u>not</u> sleep with me.
Mia’s preference is her own bed or more often, the couch in the other
room. I love this independence - reminds me of... Anyway, my morning routine is to feed Mia then shower. Without fail, this sweet, "what,
me?" face greets me after my shower… from MY bed, and often on my pillow no less. Makes me laugh every day! And when time allows, I run over for
a little snuggle/hug and "you're the best dog in the world" affections. This,
I admit, does not discourage Mia from getting on the bed each morning. But I wouldn’t trade starting each day with a
hearty laugh and thankful feeling for such a great dog with so much character.<o:p></o:p><br />
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We are all over-tired, worked, stressed, extended, etc - so #ThisJane Says find your
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Even with that big, challenging (while very common)
expression as the headline where I chose to start, I am a little nervous to
admit why. Maybe everyone reading this
is more mature than I, but I am worried people will judge me. But here goes – let’s talk @Rob Lowe. I mean, truly – has there been another man
more pretty? I really don’t mean that as
condescendingly as it may sound but my goodness, he is just beautiful. And of course like most men, he
(irritatingly) has gotten hotter with age – if that were possible. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I’m a child of the 80s so he was always on the radar but I
fully admit – I saw the pretty and the wild child roles (Billy being many
girls’ first bad boy crush), and just didn’t think much beyond that. Then there was the well-known video, the lesser known rehab stint
and off the radar. I thought another Hollywood
child star tale – as common as they come – and didn’t think much else about
him. Later, he returned in great comedic
roles, on the West Wing and where I fell in love on Brothers & Sisters – all of
which truly proved his chops as an actor.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Last year, he road showed his book with his wife (saw them on Oprah). Hearing him speak was impressive and made me want to learn more. His
autobiography is titled <u>Stories I Only Tell My Friends</u>. #ThisJane was sure that meant gossipy scoop
on all the Hollywood shenanigans. I was
wrong again! @Rob Lowe is intelligent, hard working, devoted, driven, self
aware, honest and in love with his wife and family. The last two traits, of course, being so very
attractive and awesome. If that weren't enough, he is extremely well written. And most impressive is that the way he writes gives
the reader a sense of friendship, as I imagine he intended. I would be thrilled with that talent. <o:p></o:p></div>
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While I was very committed to writing this blog entry (heck I even
considered sending a fan letter but that must have been the 80s child in me), I
was a bit timid about what someone would think of the recommendation and rave
review. This book was that impressive to
me. We have all felt judged – for age or
level of attractiveness, hair color or height, accents or roots. So I believe it would appeal to any reader that: admires someone with a dream, that recognizes
their mistakes, learns from them, intentionally grows into a better person, and is
brave enough to share that journey with the world. #ThisJane Says don’t judge a book by its
cover (literally) – you might miss out!<o:p></o:p></div>
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Write an actual pen and paper, stamp and send through
snail USPS mail. They are seriously hurting for funding so we should
support our fellow citizens that work at the post office by dropping $0.44 on a
note. Do you remember the last time you got something personal in the
mail? Signed by a friend or family member with love or even XX's and
OO's? It is a pretty feel good moment in a day - especially when arriving
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Two years ago, I was missing my best friend/roomie from
college. We lost touch as often happens after graduating, getting married
(her), kids born (hers again) and moving a few states away (her a third time).
Life is demanding and it is tough to keep up. So after a year of
intending, I wrote a long letter - we're talking 7 pages - just to tell her how
important a person she had been in my life. Having had a dear friend like
that is a great feeling. She played a tremendous role in my life and I
wanted to share the good feeling I still get reflecting on that friendship.
A month later and another 3 pages, I finally got it in the mail - with
the DVD of one of our favorite movies from college days (Beauty and the Beast -
we even had the movie poster in our room). I write all this because even
6 months later, I still feel good about writing her - giving her a gift of
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new that is special. And you will both glow with feeling that way.
They say it is better to give than to receive and coming from a gal that
LOVES to receive, I can't argue in this case. Such an easy, nice thing to
do - married pals can even slip a note into a suitcase before a business
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This one is tough but such a rewarding experience if incorporated into one's life. That's not to say I succeed every day... I do drive in Charlotte after all. (Those outside the city, Charlotteans are notoriously offensive drivers - ex. they speed up to block you when you signal a lane change. It is fierce!) Outside of driving the perilous streets of the Queen City, I realized I was tired of all the emotional energy I was wasting on all these little, every day things. </div>
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<li>Work drama - no example needed - you either live it or watch(ed) The Office.</li>
<li>I committed to Junior League (insert own favorite non-profit that also makes you crazy) but I don't have time.</li>
<li>Stupid gym - why can't I have my own chef, trainer, yoga instructor and spiritual guide like Jennifer Aniston to keep me in shape. If it were my job, I'd be happy to work out.</li>
<li>Mia wants to play ball... again. (This one really gets me as it includes struggling with providing joy to someone/thing? else).</li>
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You get the point. Now, I am a happy person - pretty sure my friends and family wouldn't accuse me of otherwise. But the light grumblings in my head about the everyday things started getting on my nerves. As a person who lives alone, when you get on your <u>own</u> nerves - you need to address it ;-) So I decided to try to change that attitude. As my favorite quote by Abraham Lincoln says, "Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." Darn right!</div>
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Honestly, I was so surprised to learn over the past few years that a whole lot of people have someone that got away. 50 years later, 5 years later, and all that lies in between. It seems we all are drawn (at times) to what might have been... #katyperry (is that how it's done or is @katyperry?) even has an AWESOME hit song out now about it - "The One That Got Away". Oh the number of songs about lost loves...<br />
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I really don't think people want "the one that got away" back (because most all of us don't!), but I think people long for what seems simpler. Whether it is easier to keep an old love than find a new one or the challenges of dating life truly are simpler than married life (my unmarried supposition but that seems a glaringly obvious statement ;-). <br />
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Even on the heels of a great blind date (granted that was 1 1/2 hours of getting to know someone but as I have said, God blessed me a Gamecock and hope springs eternal), seeing my "last love" across the parking lot laughing with his new wife - stings. It does and I hate that! Because leaving was the absolute right thing for me and clearly for him but I guess we all wonder about someone? What is it about that intellectual understanding differing so from our emotional position? I can clearly articulate that relationships's demise and do not have a friend that disagrees. It is so crystal clear, it makes me laugh at the 20 minutes devoted to typing these thoughts. Should I even post?? Thinking yes because I also KNOW a la #ladygaga or @ladygaga (imagine I'll learn tagging soon), that I'm on the edge of glory.<br />
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Anyway - tonight, #thisjanesays... Forget Exes. They are exes for a reason and would have stuck the first time if they were supposed to work. And although it has been awhile since feeling that love at first sight or maybe at first few dates in - I recall the feeling well and it being clearly accompanied by very real confirmation/clarity on the wrong prior loves (or wrong for long term - I don't want to disqualify love ever... like many friendships, we have loves for certain times in our lives and they are much fun!).<br />
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My fervent hope is that anyone reading thinks "Sometimes I do wonder... NAY, NO WAY because that would have been a whole other set of challenges;" and that this is an entertaining blog ending with a thought of thanksgiving for all our blessings. I know that is where I land and wish that for everyone I know too! To share a text from my favorite app, Reminders from God, "Wonders are unfolding beyond your dreams and hopes. To everything say, 'All is well.'" That is one thing of which I am sure :-)This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-84462351127866872792012-02-23T22:57:00.002-05:002012-02-23T22:57:19.017-05:00<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">Go on a blind date</span> </span>(if you're single),<br />
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Because you just never know - movie upon movie has been produced, book after book has been written, it's the tale as old as time. (Anyone else singing the rest of that line from Beauty and the Beast?) There wouldn't be so much media dedicated and money spent & made on the theme of finding love if it doesn't really happen. I'm always so thankful for my Gamecock roots because I was raised as a Hope Springs Eternal person (every fall - maybe this is the year...!)<br />
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The dating service industry in the U.S. is projected to be worth $2.1 BILLION (with a BA) in 2012, that's according to a VERY recent google search. People are looking for it and wanting to connect. In today's society, we are all so "plugged in" that we are losing human contact and the amazing gift of companionship.<br />
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It is ironic (don't cha think?) that technology creates a chasm within relationships (video games, t.v., headphones, laptops, apps, etc) while so many people now rely on websites and online tools to "meet" someone to share their life. The last time I hung out with my niece, we searched high and low to find real cards to play a card game (spite malice, a family fav) versus just using the iPad app. Once we finally got the cards dealt, my sister walked by and said, "Oh, you're playing with real cards. Takes so much longer, doesn't it!" No truer words spoken! It took me forever to whip up on my 10 year old niece but funny response from my sis in the context of this diatribe (definition 3 in Websters = satirical criticism. I looked it up to make sure I was using it correctly... I am still not sure).<br />
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So what does all that have to do with going on a blind date? I am sure that part of God's plan for us is to be part of a community, a family, a team. Of course, families come in a variety of ways such as my dear friends that take me in as their own in Charlotte, but ultimately that is what I believe. So I go on blind dates - because you just never know. One can find a new friend or love, have a great time but no spark or walk away with some really great stories! (Boy, do I have a TON of those) At some point I will share the really funny ones - such as the guy driving the Silver Bullet. How do I know that was the name of his car? It was airbrushed on the hood with a howling wolf. Will save the rest for another day as it does get better! :-) And for now, just delighting in tonight's great blind date! <br />
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p.s. Married friends - of which I have a LOT - plan a fun, random date you haven't done in awhile or a blind activity for your mate and see what you can learn new about each other too!This Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16405282839014349634noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4743291483021821266.post-8757601296659773542012-02-22T22:59:00.000-05:002012-02-22T22:59:08.119-05:00<b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue; font-size: large;">Carpe Diem!</span></b><br />
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My friends and family have told me that they think I am brave, courageous, hopeful. But I have my moments where I am certainly afraid or intimidated of change. My baby's blanket was so very soft and warm and yellow - what could be more comforting? Satin lining and of course, no idea of the material - just snuggly soft. I loved my blanket and remember thinking that pretty late in childhood. I didn't want to sleep one night without that blanket in my arms and hand but, in all honesty, I don't know when I gave it up. I just know myself and the way I was raised - and that one night, I just tried - and didn't look back.<br />
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For several years I have talked about writing a book with my girlfriends (and family). I was mid-30's (now late... boo!) and still dating... not at all the norm in the south. I'm proud of my roots but that's the truth. Still single and dating so know that fact well. But oh the stories my friends delight in - so we all decided I needed to write a book. And while that book is still theoretical, with the encouragement and overwhelming support of a couple of girlfriends (old and new) - I recently decided to start writing and see where it may lead. Even secured my own www site (Thisjanesays.com) - now that makes a girl feel proud!<br />
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In all honesty, I didn't want to write the book (or blog) because what if my stories were only funny with my friends...? What if my life isn't that interesting to anyone else...? Putting a pen to paper (or keys to word/wall) would mean something. If my stories aren't funny, it may be that I suck at dating! Can't have that - my family would have been right for years (I love you 'rents but committed to being honest here and I think you worry every day that I am getting in my own way... ME TOO). But life is too short to live in fear, so why not seize the day, TODAY!<br />
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I am my biggest critic so actually posting regularly will be a miracle! I write, re-write, edit, revise and compose another draft then proof. :-) Type A and proud of it! Another big challenge will be how much to share and going for it. I have always been an open book - literally heart on sleeve. But without being too sentimental (okay now that's just silly and likely to happen often), I'm only perfect by God's love and grace so if I have a tupo (hee hee) here, that's OKAY! So I'm going to (try to) write each day - which will perfectly fill my Lenten void (due to vow) of no t.v. - and see where we are in a couple of months. And maybe discern some things too along the way.<br />
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So this Jane says... Carpe Diem. We all have times in our lives where we run out of steam, think we can't dream or make a change, attain an old goal, or even set a new one. Our "ways" are too set for change. Or are they? All my life I was told "you won't know unless you try." So if one of my dreams is to write - <i>I can't believe I have a dream that I am acting on!</i> - then there is no time like the present.<br />
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